MCC Manchester Trans Discussion Group The MCC Manchester Trans Discussion Group usually meets on the fourth Saturday of each month in the Church Social Room of St John Chrysostoms Church (accessed from the side entrance by the bell tower on Anson Road) at 3:30pm (room open from approx 3:00pm) until approx 6:30pm. (Please note, from 2007 the pattern of meetings has changed from the third Saturday to the fourth Saturday as this avoids clashes with other events.) Sometimes the Group meets on an alternative Saturday in the month when other events coincide or the room is unavailable. If you haven't received confirmation of the date, please check with the Pastor before making a special journey. Directions to MCC Manchester are at http://www.mccmanchester.co.uk/mccmmap.htm Socialising: After the meeting we usually go to our favourite Indian Restaurant for our evening meal, which we book for approx 7:00 pm for a 7:30pm dinner. We hope to finish in time for those who want to go into the Gay Village and enjoy the nightlife. The meal and visit to the village are designed to help those who are less confident in public, by providing the support of a friendly group and TG-friendly restaurant. Costs: Membership of the group is free of charge, but we appreciate a small contribution to the cost of refreshments. Average cost of the meal at the Indian restaurant is £10-15, depending on your choice and consumption of alcohol! All are most welcome to these events, those who want to explore their TG status or need help in "being themselves", and especially anyone interested in a better understanding of transgendered people and their community. We look forward to welcoming you to the group. You are also invited to join the online discussion forum which supports the work of this group and provides information about trans events that members are involved in.  You will find it at http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/TG-DiscussionGroup/  Just click the 'Join this Group' button on that page for full details of how to keep informed of what's happening.

MCC Manchester - The Church For Everyone

The Metropolitan Community Church was founded in America in 1968 in order to provide a church home for those excluded from other churches - a trans person was one of the twelve people who attended the very first MCC meeting in 1968. In particular we provide a spiritual home for those who were rejected due to gender identification or sexual orientation. We have had congregations in the UK since 1972 and have always included trans people in our life and ministry.

The Church For The Trans Community

In MCC we welcome everyone with open arms and seek to provide an affirming and non-judgmental atmosphere. Our trans members play a full and active part in our ministry, leading worship, celebrating Holy Communion, welcoming others, preaching, and taking part in the government of church. People may dress as they please and we provide care and support for people at all stages in their journey. Our trans members are particularly skilled at helping and encouraging other trans people as they explore their identities. Our whole church welcomes everyone who comes without bias or prejudice. Many of our members are lesbian, bisexual or gay and know from their own experience about the pain of coming to terms with who they really are.

A Place To Be Yourself

Each Sunday we celebrate together, providing Spirit-filled uplifting worship, and offering Holy Communion to all who wish to receive. Our services are both joyful and structured, last just over an hour and are followed with time to share simple refreshments. The choir, which enhances our worship, is second to none and is always looking out for new members.

On the first Tuesday evening of each month we hold a simple service called Recovering the Calm. This service is for healing of mind, body and spirit. This is set in the context of Holy Communion and we offer the traditional rite of prayer accompanied with laying on of hands and anointing with oil.

A Place of Acceptance

In MCC we accept people just as they are - in the same way that we believe God accepts us just as we are. Our trans members say that the most valuable thing they appreciate in our church is the opportunity to be accepted, without anyone batting an eyelid. The chance to make friends and to be accepted in all our diversity is the most valuable gift we can offer - as we believe this acceptance and diversity are two of the most wonderful attributes of God.

A Place of Diversity

Our church is made up of heterosexuals, gay men, lesbian women, bisexuals, and trans people, as well as those who don't wish to define. People come to us from many different Christian traditions - but we particularly attract people from Roman Catholic and Evangelical backgrounds. We also have people who come from no particular faith background and who have embraced the Christian faith through our life and ministry.

What About the Bible?

The Bible is one of the main cornerstones of our faith and is important as it tells us of the sovereign works of God with the Jewish people, in the life of Jesus, and in the life of the earliest Christian churches. As we study the Bible we seek to use the best insights of modern Biblical scholars and we seek to use the Bible as a tool to interpret the Bible. Therefore, we use Jesus's example of love and acceptance as the lens through which we interpret the Bible so that it makes sense for us in our own age and culture.

What about THAT Text?

A woman must not wear men's clothing, nor a man wear women's clothing, for the Lord your God detests anyone who does this. (Deuteronomy 22:5)

Anyone in the trans community who is a Christian or Jew needs to come to terms with this verse. It is a verse used to condemn trans people - indeed the footnote in the New International Version Bible Commentary explicitly makes reference to transvestites.

In all probability the text was condemning people who cross-dressed so they could gain access into spaces reserved for the other sex for the purpose of illicit sexual intercourse. Hence a man might dress as a woman in order to gain unlawful access into women's areas of the Jewish village. The law was concerned with keeping men and women separate so they would not fornicate. Incidentally a 16th Century Jewish commentary on the Law, the Shulhan Arukh, states that during the festival of Purim people may cross-dress for the purpose of "gaiety" not adultery. This would lend support to the idea that the intention of the law was to prevent sexual sin.

To view a Microsoft Word document offering a thorough and detailed analysis of this text by the Reverend David Horton, an Anglican priest in the Rochester diocese, click here.

Are We a "Real" Church?

Jesus said that wherever "two or three" are gathered in His name he would be there with them. There are significantly more than this number worshipping with us each week!

We believe that a "real" church is part of the One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church of Jesus.

• We are One in that our unity is in Jesus. This is best summed up in the liturgical verse from the Anglican Church: "though we are many, we are one body because we each share the one bread".
• We are Holy in that our holiness is in Jesus our head who sanctifies his church.
• We are Catholic in that we are open to all people without distinction and without prejudice. This is the real meaning of Catholic. Indeed many churches which describe themselves as being "catholic" are not really universal as they don't welcome all types of people.
• We are Apostolic in that we follow the teachings of the apostles as laid out in the New Testament.

Our professional clergy are as highly trained as in other denominations - they need a degree and at least two years of postgraduate training - and we enjoy warm relationships with many other congregations in Manchester.

Some Prayers used in our Church

"Nature delights in diversity.
Why can't human beings delight in their diversity too?"

God, You are the Creator and Lover of us all.
You wish us to live in solidarity with each other
and to rejoice in our diversity.
We pray that all Your transgender, lesbian, gay,
bisexual and straight children may experience justice,
enjoy peace and spread Your love throughout the world.
We pray in the name of God,
who welcomes all to his holy circle of friendship.
Amen.
(Reinhold Niebuhr)

Lord, when you created us,
you saw that what you created was good.
You made us what we are in the womb
before our mothers knew us,
and like all of your creation
you saw that we too are good.
Forgive us when we hurt in a world turned from your love
because we feel unloved, forgetting how near you are.
Help us in our Gender Dysphoria and how we deal with it.
Be with those we love
and those we have hurt by our Gender actions.
Be with those we love
and those who have hurt us.
You promise a new creation to those who are in Christ.
Help us to work with you to bring this about:
in our own lives, amongst our loved ones,
our friends and neighbours, and in the wider world.
Amen.

God grant us the courage to change the things we can change,
The serenity to accept those we cannot change,
And the wisdom to know the difference -
But God grant us the courage not to give up on what is right
Even though It may seem hopeless at the time.
(Fleet Admiral Chester W. Nimitz - CinC US Pacific Fleet in WW2)

Father,
All who seek to do what is right in our world
suffer in one way or another.
Help us to remember that to be transgendered
is just one gift and just one problem
among so many in our world.
Remind us that there are other groups
that are just as isolated, hurt and persecuted.
Help us to honour all who work with hope
for justice and reconciliation.
Help us to support all who give themselves
to bring love and peace.
Help us to remember most of all that, as Christ,
you were despised and rejected,
a man of sorrows and well acquainted with grief;
and that at the very moment you were redeeming us,
we rejected you,
and condemned you to a criminal's death on the Cross.
As we change our own situation
and the face we present to the world,
help us to trust in your love.
We ask this in the name of the man of sorrows, Jesus Christ,
our Lord, our brother, our friend and our redeemer.
Amen.

God, whose love and compassion extends to all
without distinction of sex or sexuality,
We offer you our lives and experiences
as transgendered people, gay men, bisexuals and lesbian women.
Help us to play our special part
in your work of redeeming love for all people.
Give us strength to carry your love
into a world that may reject or ignore us.
May we journey with Christ in faith and truth and justice,
trusting in your eternal love.

Because of what I am, it's strange, Lord,
but I never thought that I should finish up
being thankful for what I am.
I am thankful, Lord,
because I realize that,
rather than not being able to serve you because of what I am,
it is because of what I am
that I can serve you in a unique way.
(Jan Goddard 'Prayers from the both of me')

Some book recommendations from our Trans Group members

At the March 2005 meeting of our discussion group, the following books were put forward as having been of particular interest in the areas of gender, identity, sexuality and transition.

Many of these titles are still in print and available for purchase via online booksellers such as Amazon.co.uk or its American partner Amazon.com. In some cases, used copies of out-of-print titles can be obtained from re-sellers through your Amazon account.

Copies of these titles should also be available through the public library service for those who would prefer to borrow rather than buy. Remember, by placing requests for these books and encouraging libraries to stock them, you are helping to put these titles within reach of other readers who may themselves be dealing with trans issues and are seeking good material.

MCC Manchester - Come Along and Check Us Out!

You will be assured of a warm welcome, uplifting worship and the chance to make new and interesting friends.

If you found this page informative, we invite you to view Jenny-Anne's Journey of Faith page.